I blamed my employment for stress and lack of time. It turns out, I am capable of creating stress and running out of time no matter what I do for employment! I have heard variations of the phrase ‘where attention goes, energy flows’ multiple times in multiple contexts. I am experiencing how true that statement is first hand.
There are always two or more ways to look at any situation. The first two are 1) the way I see it now and 2) the OPPOSITE of how I see it now. In between, there are hundreds of more ways to see any situation if I take enough time to think about them. My power lies in being able to choose which way I want to focus my energy on.
I am grateful for my fear because it serves to keep me safe. It’s a warning light that says “hey, something is different here” but that is all it is. Beyond acknowledging and being grateful for the warning, it doesn’t do me any good to think about fears.
In the major life transition I am experiencing now, I see I have the choice between thinking about how to prevent what I’m afraid of and thinking about how to create the life I want. If I spend energy thinking about preventing catastrophe, I feel limited, smothered, anxious. If I spend energy thinking about creating the life I want, taking steps in that direction, I feel light, energized, excited and free! No one makes that choice for me. I decide where my energy flows.
I am becoming much more picky about where I spend my energy these days. I have a list of high priority items which include: peace, joy, satisfaction and purpose. There are distractions from those things everywhere, all the time, but I don’t have to feed into them. I can choose peace and joy at any time, no matter what is happening around me. When I get off track, I remind myself of that fact and move on. When I focus my efforts on being present and showing up, I am blown away by the opportunities that effortlessly fall into my lap.
My relationship with my son is improving because I am opening myself up to experience the world in his way instead of trying to make him fit into mine. I can look at all the things he’s not, or I can cherish all the things he IS! The latter is much more satisfying than the former. In learning how to focus on his strengths, I am also learning to focus on mine.
I am learning how vitally important it is for me to take time to get quiet within. It is only in the quiet moments that I can hear my inner most desires and identify what brings me joy. The quiet moments give me clarity and remind me that all is well in my world now, in this moment. I am safe and protected. Life supports me!
From my heart to yours
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